Tag: dharma

Finding Our Way Home Once Again.

Someone asked a question of me this morning, “How do we keep our practice ‘alive’?”

They were referring to the practice of mindfulness training; specifically, maintaining a connection with our truest self when all else seems to be slipping into chaos.

It’s never easy, is it? We may spend hours dedicated to our meditation practice – but, that sense of bliss is never everlasting. Maybe, that’s the mistake we’re all making? Thinking once we’ve lost our ‘center’, we’ve failed.

But, the true success is in finding our way back once again.

My darlings, our lives are filled with unexpected moments. In a single day, we may experience an endless array of emotions – from extraordinary upset to absolute contentedness. We may cry, we may cringe, we may fumble, we may fall – but always, deep within the very center of our heart, there is this irrefutable capacity for gratitude.

And, gratitude is the stepping point for resilience.

In his talk, The Living Dharma, Thich Nhat Hanh offers,

“Living Dharma is when we know how to walk mindfully, when we know how to sit mindfully, when we know how to eat mindfully, we know how to breathe mindfully, we know how to recognize what is happening in the present moment. If we practice mindfulness in our daily life, then we are making Dharma shine all around us. Living Dharma is not made by images and sounds, it is made by life.”

Indeed, to find our balance, we must move around – recalibrating our ‘sense of center’ to whatever life may throw our way.

It’s in those moments when our lives are turned upside down…

That we may relax…

That we may breathe…

That we may find our way home once again.

The practice isn’t about avoiding life’s upsets, my darlings – rather, it’s about embracing them.

Regarding All Dharma as Dreams.

[blockquote source=”Atisha”]”Regard all dharma as dreams; although experiences may seem solid, they are passing memories.” [/blockquote]

I remember the first time I heard this slogan. It was during a meditation retreat, and intended to help us foster a deeper compassion for our ‘inner being.’

But, try as I might, I just couldn’t conceptualize these words. I mean, what does it really mean to regard all dharmas as dreams?

And, how do we determine the balance between our dreams and our awakened mind?

As we begin to practice our meditation practice, we discover the inherent conflicts of these, and many other questions. We learn that not everything is so black and white.  Likewise, we begin to understand how our spiritual state begins to shape our outside world.

When we feel conflicted, distressed, irritated, angry – our universe can shrink to the size of a pin’s head. But, when our hearts are truly open, our world becomes much more spacious again.

That which is static, may become dynamic; that which is fixed, fluid…

To “regard all dharma as dreams” begs us to consider whether or not things are really so matter of fact, after all. Likewise, it teaches us that even the greatest of difficulties can be used to open our hearts.

[blockquote source=”Pema Chodron”]“Coming to terms with the intangibility of our thoughts, their lack of reality, can liberate us from enormous suffering and anguish.” A thought or a fear can develop into a full-blown story line that can cause us incredible pain and upset. This tendency has the potential to destroy the quality of our life and our ability to connect with others.”[/blockquote]

This is the foundation of the bodhichitta, and forms the basis for cultivating our most awakened mind.