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When Kindness Heals.

[blockquote source=”Gibran Khalil Gibran”]“Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair, but manifestations of strength and resolution.”[/blockquote]
I was quite moved by a story I read recently, about a small tribe in the southernmost portion of Africa. It was a reflection on, of all things, their ‘judicial’ system – in which loving-kindness was used in the place of criticism.

For the Babemba tribe, they believe that all humans enter this world born of a single source – and, each desiring equally the spiritual solace of happiness, peace and love.

Likewise, they recognize that as imperfect humans – there will be ‘mistakes’ to be made along the way.

‘Mistakes’…I really don’t like that word, by the way. As, it offers a sense that nothing can be done in those moments when we’ve lost our way.

And, in my experience – the greatest opportunity for spiritual growth generally occurs in the moments when the world seems to be crashing down.

However, in our society, mistakes are often fodder for harsh criticism and judgement – with media outlets gleefully churning out page after page of misteps.

And, often leaving one’s hope invariably crushed.

But, for the Bahbemba tribe – there is a much different response. They understand the power of community and compassion, viewing even the most egregious of errors as an opportunity for healing.

For the Bahbemba, when a tribal member acts unjustly, he/she is placed at the center of the village, alone while the activities of the village cease. One by one, the villages gather around – forming a large circle, symbolic of their unity.

What happens next is quite remarkable ~ and a testimony of humanity’s responsibility to all other beings.

One by one, villagers of all ages take their turn in speaking – they speak to every single act of kindness ever shown, and to serve as a reminder that there is always a greater light shining within.

The ceremony continues for several days, until no positive words are left unspoken.

It is only then, that the circle is broken – and, with joyous celebration all are welcomed ‘home.’

My goodness, can you imagine the transformations that may begin ~ when we approach those who may have wronged us, with the same love we have for ourselves?

Ironically, the ‘need’ for such a ceremony is quite rare – as the energy of appreciation is infused in all that they do.

And, when the cornerstone of humanity rests upon this energy of love ~ my dears, there is simply nothing on this world that we can’t do.

Much love, and many blessings on this beautiful day…

This story is originally from the book, Contact, The First Four Minutes by Leonard Sunin.

Photo by Jessica Hilltout.